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Kristin Bush's avatar

Love. Love. Love.

I think showing and sharing with your real peeps here will show them that all your rituals and strategies ARE WORKING!

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Tara Schuster's avatar

They ARE working. One thing I've noticed in this move is that I've had a few meltdowns but instead of trying to PUSH THROUGH, I've realized - I need to relax and gentle my way through. This has meant rescheduling meetings and even seeing that instead of one packing night - I need a massage. 💆‍♀️

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Kristin Bush's avatar

OMG. Please get that massage. I just re-upped my Substack for your content for a year - use that 😛

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Katie Campbell's avatar

Yes. Best update ever of all time. A+. 10/10 Highly recommend.

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Tara Schuster's avatar

bahahaha thank you, friend!

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Katie Campbell's avatar

🥰 always!

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Barbara Edelman's avatar

1. Great dispatch.

2. Such good news re Boyfriend.

3. Totally thrilled you are happy! It has been a long journey and you did so much hard work to love/parent/heal yourself! (Helping others along their journey at same time)

And finally: the self help was not as fun without you sharing who and how you are.

So this was a great return to new normal! With a happy vibe. ❤️❤️❤️

4. And may i say moving out of LA to Northern California is wonderful!!!!

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Tara Schuster's avatar

Huzzah! thanks for the detailed notes - I appreciate you very much, Barbara! And maybe we will be reunited in Nor Cal! xoxo

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Greer Williams's avatar

Loved it! I grew up in Northern California and went back after college—it’s a magical place. You will LOVE.❤️

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Tara Schuster's avatar

huzzah! I'm excited!

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Debra Shapiro's avatar

Love this update! Share away..people are so thankful to learn from your experience!

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Tara Schuster's avatar

Thank you, Debra! I appreciate you :)

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Debra Shapiro's avatar

Hope to meet you in SF!

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Katie Morroni's avatar

Love it and you, lady! All the best in the next few weeks 😘✨💐

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Tara Schuster's avatar

Yaaay! Thanks, friend! Nice to see your name :)

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hiroe's avatar

Loved it!

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Tara Schuster's avatar

thanks for letting me know - gives me such encouragement

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Steph's avatar

LOVEEEEEE 💜💜💜💜 Your updates are everything!!! Also, omgosh, ANNE!! I bet she is amazing.

I am SO glad you're still with the boyfriend and now UP NORTH!!

All the love and support and strength to youuuuu

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Sheila Smallwood's avatar

❤️👏👏👏Loved this and good luck with the move!!! I was born in San Fran:))!!

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Danna's avatar

Love this, especially the two wins and an overfunction! Thanks for sharing

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Brittany Heer's avatar

Look at us, moving on the same week! I have so many friends asking if they can help me move (very grateful for the offers!), but I love them too much and hire movers, now that I can afford them. Sending you safe travels and smooth moving logistics from Indy 💗

PS. I love that you included a little love note to your current apartment. I’ve taken to verbally thanking (or cursing) a space before I close the door and move on, especially if I felt safe and at home there. I hope your next space in Northern Cal brings you happiness and peace! 😘

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