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Jun 23Liked by Tara Schuster

I also bought Lily’s book! Excited to read it. Her energy is super infectious and great! Would read anything you rec, Tara!

But lately, I’ve been wondering why there are so many dating coaches / subscriptions that are geared toward women. Is it because we are so willing to put in the time, money, energy to go after some thing that they really want?

I don’t see men putting in the same level of work…and while I don’t want to generalize / be negative - it does feel like something strange societally is happening right now in the dating space. I guess there’s proof in this article, which I’m sure all your single friends were chatting about in the group text:

https://www.thecut.com/article/tiktok-videos-single-women-crying.html

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Yeah...I read this article too. I'm not sure that guys *aren't* having the same issues. They don't talk about them however. And the ones who have become really unhinged end up as incels, etc. So while I'm not sure about the gender divide in dating in particular, *something* is going very wrong! For all of us! That's my take anyways. Hope you enjoy Lily's book! xo and thanks for being here!

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Jun 23Liked by Tara Schuster

I was already gonna buy the book based your email’s subject.🤣 THAT’S how much I trust your advice!

Love it when you send recs… Maybe we could all swap recs sometime — recs for relevant products (like your little sound machine that I immediately bought in purple), recs for letting go, recs for practicing gratitude, etc. Obvi YOUR recs are what we’re here for, but I get the sense that the community you’ve created is bursting with a lot of cool people… ❤️🙏

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Love this idea, thanks, Ali! And hope you are liking the sound machine :)

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